Click To Call The days and weeks after a homecoming from war can be filled with excitement, relief, and many other feelings. Veterans who are also parents may find that a lot has changed at home since being deployed. As a result, some veterans may find it necessary to reconnect with their child(ren). Here you will find some tips on how you can help your child(ren) feel close to you again after you've returned home from war.
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Back from War: How to Reconnect with Your Children

The days and weeks after a homecoming from war can be filled with excitement, relief, and many other feelings. Veterans who are also parents may find that a lot has changed at home since being deployed. As a result, some veterans may find it necessary to reconnect with their child(ren). Here are some tips on how you can help your child(ren) feel close to you again after you've returned home from war:

  • Take it easy and let things happen naturally. As tempting as it is, don't force your children to hug or play with you. Give your children time to warm up and readjust to you at their own pace.
  • Arrange a special time with each child to reconnect (have a picnic, ride a carousel, go to the video arcade, etc.).
  • Spend time with your children looking at the family scrapbook, their artwork, schoolwork, etc.
  • Show an interest in the everyday events of your children's lives.
  • Find out what new interests your children developed while you were away.
  • Praise your children for helping out while you were away.
  • Give each child a "bravery medal" for being brave while you were gone.
  • Discuss your feelings about returning and encourage your children to do the same.
  • Listen sensitively to your children. Let them know you are interested and ready to hear all they have to say.
  • Ease back into family routines.
  • Discipline your children with care and love.
  • Seek help from the Family Center in your military installation, if needed.

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